Discovering your child is suffering sexual abuse is a parent or caregiver’s worst nightmare. Unfortunately, as in most cases of abuse, it’s difficult to determine how prevalent sexual abuse against children is, as most cases go unreported.

However, studies estimate that 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys is a victim of sexual abuse. Tragically, signs of child sexual abuse aren’t usually obvious. Abusers often go to great lengths to hide their actions, and it can be difficult to distinguish from other signs of child stress or trauma. 

That’s why it’s crucial for loved ones to be able to identify signs of sexual abuse to better protect their children. In this article, we will cover the warning signs to be vigilant of because being informed can make all the difference in safeguarding your child’s well-being.

Attorney Jessica Pride and her team empower survivors and their families by fighting for their rights and seeing that those responsible for their abuse are brought to justice.

If you or a loved one has experienced child sexual abuse, we are here for you. Reach out to us online or call (619) 516-8166 for a 100% free and private case review today.

What Is Considered Sexual Abuse of a Child?

Sexual abuse of a child involves any form of sexual activity or behavior with a minor. These inappropriate and exploitative acts can take several forms, including physical, verbal, manipulative, or suggestive. 

While we understand that this is an extremely sensitive topic, understanding what counts as sexual abuse is necessary for recognizing signs of sexual abuse in children. 

Here are some examples of what can be considered sexual abuse of a child: 

• Inappropriate Touching: Any intentional touching of private areas, whether over or under the clothing or making a child touch someone’s genitals. 
• Exposing a Child to Sexual Content: Forcing or coercing a child to watch pornography, sexual acts, or other sexual materials. 
• Forcing or Encouraging Sexual Acts: Coercing or manipulating a child into performing sexual acts with an adult or another child.
• Exploitation for Child Pornography: Taking or sharing inappropriate photos or videos of a child.
• Voyeurism or Inappropriate Observation: Watching or recording a child for sexual gratification without their knowledge or consent.

It’s important to remember that sexual abuse doesn’t always involve physical contact. Acts like exposing oneself to a child or making lewd comments can also constitute abuse.

Emotional Sexual Abuse Signs in Children

Recognizing the emotional signs of sexual abuse in children can be challenging, as many of these signs can overlap with normal childhood behaviors or other stressful experiences. 

However, when certain changes are sudden, persistent, or out of character, they may indicate something far more serious. Below are some crucial emotional and behavioral signs to watch out for: 

Sudden Changes in Behavior

Children who experience sexual abuse often display extreme changes in their behavior. 

For example, a typically outgoing child may become withdrawn, avoiding social interactions or activities they once loved. On the other hand, a quiet or reserved child may start acting out and showing aggression or defiance.

Furthermore, emotional outbursts and withdrawal are common symptoms of sexual abuse in children. Shifts in mood may include depression, frequent episodes of irritability, and extreme perfectionism. 

Increased Fear or Anxiety 

A child may develop heightened and intense fears of certain places, people, or activities, like: 

• Reluctance or outright refusal to be alone with specific people.
• Fear of certain places or situations.
• General unease or jumpiness, such as flinching or shying away from physical touch.

This fear can also disrupt basic routines, leading to difficulty sleeping, frequent nightmares, and changes in appetite. 

Low Self-Esteem 

Sexual abuse often distorts and impacts how a child views themselves. Signs include: 

• Negative self-perception, such as feeling “dirty” or “ashamed.”
• Isolating themselves from families or friends.
• Wearing oversized or concealing clothing to hide their body.

Regression to Earlier Behaviors

Children might return to behaviors they had previously outgrown, such as: 

• Bedwetting
• Thumbsucking 

Abnormal Knowledge or Behaviors Related to Sexual Acts 

One of the more alarming signs may be inappropriate sexual behaviors or knowledge for their age. Younger children tend to more commonly exhibit this sign as they are more likely to mimic behaviors. This can include:

• Using sexual language or acting out sexual scenarios that seem advanced for their developmental stage.
• Mimicking behaviors that may suggest exposure to abuse.

Recognizing the signs of sexual abuse in a child can be incredibly challenging. The emotional and physical scars often hide beneath layers of fear, confusion, and shame. The scars left by abuse can last a lifetime, but you don’t have to suffer in silence.

The Pride Law Firm is dedicated to providing a safe and supportive space for survivors and their families to find justice and healing. You don’t have to carry this burden alone. Contact our legal team online or call (619) 516-8166 today to learn if you qualify for legal action.

Physical Symptoms of Sexual Abuse in Children

Direct physical signs of sexual abuse are not as frequent as emotional or behavioral changes. If physical signs are present, they may include unexplained bruising, redness, or swelling around the genital, anal, or mouth areas. Other signs can include bleeding or discharge from the genital or anal area, as well as the presence of scabs, bumps, or sores. Unexplained urinary tract infections (UTIs) may also be a potential indicator.

How Do I Know if an Adult Is Sexually Abusing My Child?

Since children rarely speak out about sexual abuse, it’s crucial for loved ones to pay attention to adults who may be taking too much of an interest in their child. Keeping an eye out for child grooming practices like those listed below can be invaluable in protecting your child:

• Gift giving, especially expensive gifts or giving them money.
• Pushing unwanted physical affection on the child, like kissing or hugging.
• Paying special attention to or showing an obvious preference toward a specific child.
• Requesting privacy and alone time with the child. 

The Pride Law Firm Listens to and Supports Child Sexual Abuse Survivors 

At The Pride Law Firm, we commend the bravery and courage it takes to come forward. We understand these are difficult conversations, but being aware of sexual abuse signs in children can help uncover and prevent abuse from happening to others. 

With over 20 years of experience representing women, men, teens, and children who have experienced abuse, our child sexual abuse lawyers are here to help you explore all of your legal options and find the right path forward. 

When you’re ready, contact our team online or call (619) 516-8166 for a complimentary and confidential case evaluation.